Okay, quick hypothetical question: If you were in a committed relationship with, let's say, a pornstar, and she loved having sex with 5-10 guys in the last month before she started dating you, but you haven't had a chance to have sex with her yet, would this bother you? You've been together for two months and just haven't had sex yet.
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Let's say I'm the pornstar, Maybe I want to make my life meaningful and want to be seen and treated as a special girl than a regular pornstar. I want to reserve the best and meaningful sex when the time is right.
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The only time that would bother a person is when they can't separate sex with love. They should remember that their partner is having sex because it is part of their job and not because they're in love with the person that they're doing it with.
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She thinks you are a "nice guy" but in reality, she is just not that into you. otherwise, she would be banging you.
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You are so negative on "she is not into you". Are you saying that she only loves him by force?
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miracleshappen she's saying she's not that into him because she doesn't see him attractive in bed.
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Personally, I'd find it laughable to even consider dating someone in that way, you are meant to stay with her but not getting any action and she's a pornstar whose bonking guys everyday. No guy with any self-respect would tolerate that situation.
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Just because she's a pornstar it doesn't automatically mean that she would sleep with you immediately. Maybe she's withholding sex in order to find out if you're serious with her or not. But based on your answer, it sounds like all you want is to be able to sleep with her already.
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I'm just going to ask her why she hasn't decided for us to have sex. Not going to be envious of the guys who slept with her since that's the main reason for her job.
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Charanne I don't worry even if it takes more months since I want to see her as a different person without treating her like a pornstar.
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You're pornstar girlfriend must be saving it and maybe want to test you if you can wait cos she does not want to be seen and treated as a sex object all the time and she needs a little break from you by doing other stuff rather than sex.
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Getting into her perspective I think she wants to be seen as a better woman than a whore who gets fuck by other guys. She wants to separate the idea between her job and personal life and she doesn't want to be seen as a pornstar always that's why she restrict having a sexual relationship with you.
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Yeah, I think that's a logical way to see it and I agree that she don't want to be seen as a pornstar always and to be always treated as a sex object.
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I somewhat agree with you on the part of separating her job from her personal life. But not having sex with the guy that you're seeing for two months is too much in my opinion.
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