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    One of my close friends confided to me that she does not enjoy the sex with her boyfriend anymore. I did not ask the reasons as I was a bit shy to actually ask her. I just told her that she needed to talk about it with her boyfriend.
    Why do you think that some people would just say that they do not enjoy the sex with their partners anymore? And what do they need to do with it?

  • #2
    Maybe she met up with someone who is better in bed. It could be that her boyfriend isn't satisfying her enough.


    • tummytummy
      tummytummy commented
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      Why'd you even think that she would even cheat just like that?

    • imacoolgal
      imacoolgal commented
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      I think this is the case, too. It is just that the boyfriend does not want to end the relationship yet. Maybe, he would do the breakup soon.

    • HeatherS
      HeatherS commented
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      Since when that her boyfriend became a she?

  • #3
    Maybe he's been doing the same moves over and over. She should initiate to spice things up before she calls her boyfriend boring.


    • TaintGotYou
      TaintGotYou commented
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      How do they spice things up? Grab a porn movie and perform all the positions on the movie?

    • PintCream
      PintCream commented
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      TaintGotYou That would be the best suggestion. Doing porn actions would be so hot.

  • #4
    I guess it's normal for some couples to not be sexually active in long term relationships.


    • voodoofoo
      voodoofoo commented
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      Sometimes sex would keep a relationship alive. In long-term relationships, trying out some things that are not sex-related is good.

    • breastse3
      breastse3 commented
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      Yes, and I think that most of our folks might have stopped having them already lol

    • miracleshappen
      miracleshappen commented
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      I think that's something that they intentionally do. They just get too busy with other things that's why they often have less of it

  • #5
    Maybe the boyfriend is not really good at bed. There are men who are not actually superb in love making. Or could it be that she was just comparing his current boyfriend with her past boyfriends who were way better than the current one?


    • ermanw4
      ermanw4 commented
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      Probably she is comparing her previous sexperiences and that's not good.

  • #6
    It sounds like she's lying, maybe she's just lying around and her boyfriend does all the work then says she's not enjoying anymore? Complete bullcrap!


    • SpeedyGee
      SpeedyGee commented
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      I'd call it bullsh*t as well. I wouldn't be surprised if her boyfriend happens to tell her that he's not enjoying it anymore as well.

  • #7
    If their partner keeps doing the same thing during sex, there's definitely a chance your partner would get tired of it with you. I would suggest to try something new whenever you're doing it


    • BossyGal
      BossyGal commented
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      What are some of the things that you can suggest for them to try?

  • #8
    There's plenty of reasons as to why couples end up not enjoying sex anymore. Like they only do the same things, the guy cums fast, the girl takes forever, etc...


    • Noelle
      Noelle commented
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      Have you experienced any of them as well?

  • #9
    Not sure how you can give an advice to someone who doesn't tell you the complete details of the situation. And since it looks like she wouldn't discuss it with you, the only thing that you can tell her is that she needs to talk to her partner about it and solve the problem themselves


    • Ommarablue
      Ommarablue commented
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      Do you think that she doesn't need to be involved on this since it is something the two of them need to fix it?

    • Charanne
      Charanne commented
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      Ommarablue Absolutely. It is their their own problem so let them solve it. She should not get into the picture.

  • #10
    All I can say is that they should experiment every once in a while during sex and try to push each others limits to keep things interesting in the bedroom


    • #11
      Originally posted by sinksex View Post
      Why do you think that some people would just say that they do not enjoy the sex with their partners anymore? And what do they need to do with it?
      Do you prefer that your partner would pretend that he or she is still enjoying it rather than being honest with you?


      • loofabb
        loofabb commented
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        I bet some of them held themselves back before telling their partners that the sex is not as good as before

      • AvaHHH
        AvaHHH commented
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        loofabb Some would pretend but I think it would be better if it would be told so that the partner would have a knowledge on it.

    • #12
      Rough sex, perhaps. They could have been engaging from rough sex. Overtime, you would start to dislike it as it would be difficult to perpetuate it for a long time.


      • #13
        You should have at least tried to ask her questions about it. Not sure you can give a proper advice to a person if the details about the problem is not complete


        • RustyJay
          RustyJay commented
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          She might already asked her about it but decided not to go into details here in respect of her friend

        • Khaleesi
          Khaleesi commented
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          RustyJay But we need more details in order for us to say something over it.

      • #14
        Why not try to remember the things that all of your exes has done to you during sex that you enjoyed and maybe try those things with him. But make sure that you don't mention to him that those were the moves that were done by your exes


        • WillowPillow
          WillowPillow commented
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          That can be a risky since she might accidentally mention the name of that ex since the two of them are doing something that she and her ex used to like