Trying Something New

[tummytummy]

When it comes to trying something new when it comes to sex, are you the type who would just surprise your partner or you're going to tell him/her about it first?

[leahsneak]

It would be much better that you talked about it with your partner first because surprising him/her while the two of you are doing it can lead into arguments.

[WillowPillow]

If your partner is adventurous I think it's alright to surprise him.

[pauline]

Is your advice based on your experience or you've just heard of it from a friend?

[Charanne]

There have been a couple of times that I surprised the guy while we're doing it. The one that comes to mind was when I let him blow his load inside my mouth while I'm giving him a blowjob. He told me that was the best blowjob that he ever had at the time.

[miracleshappen]

I was expecting that you're going to tell us that you put a finger up his ass while sucking his dick.

[serrenakern]

miracleshappen have you actually tried putting a finger up a guy's asshole before?

[Charanne]

miracleshappen I'd rather blowjob someone rather than fingering their asshole.

[ejayniel]

I would sometimes surprise him by telling him that I wanted to try something while we're doing it. Like whispering to him that I wanted him to remove his condom and cum inside of me.

[sinksex]

How many times have you actually asked the guy to creampie you? I bet he came less than two minutes once you told him that.

[Ommarablue]

I'm guessing that you wouldn't whisper to them that too often that's why it was kinda new for them?

[imacoolgal]

It would be much better that you talked about it with your partner first because surprising him/her while the two of you are doing it can lead into arguments.

I agree with her on this one. Actually had an ex who tried to put a finger up my butt while we're doing it. I ended up headbutting him because of it.

[breastse3]

That might be his way of telling you that he wants to try anal with you and he was prepping your asshole for it.

[TechKilla]

You should have warned him from the start that you don't want your asshole to be touched.

[bewgrien]

He definitely has to tell it to me first since that's what I'm going to do if I have seen a new position that might be interesting for us to try.

[shouty]

It's better if you have the resources first like trying to do research before doing it.

[sala67]

Are you the type who often tries to find new positions to try? bewgrien

[bewgrien]

Yeah sala67 I am the type of girl who wishes for a new position every time I had sex.

[hbhvr56]

I would sometimes give suggestions when it comes to certain positions that I wanted to try. So it is up to him on whether we would try it or not.

[mum201610]

What are some of the positions that you wanted to try? Would gladly help you in doing them.

[reddish97]

Would you suggest it to him immediately during sex or before having sex?

[hbhvr56]

reddish97 I would suggest it to him before sex of course and the position I wanted to try is the seashell and I think I'm flexible enough to do it. mum201610

[nericcaw3]

I will surprise him so he will be thrilled to try something new but be sure he's up to it like for example if he loves anime then I would surprise him by dressing up or will cosplay as Sailormoon or any other shows that he likes I bet he would love it.

[LessLee]

I was thinking of surprising him too by wearing a costume too and he fantasizes about sexy mermaids but that's hard to do lol.

[paupau11]

Depending on what he likes..hmmm sounds like you're being resourceful in this one and its genius.

[keyth90]

I'm not really the one who surprises too much because, in the end, I get upset if they don't like it so it's better for me to tell to him first.

[FoxieRoxy]

Maybe it's not their thing that's why they dislike what you did, It's better to know what they're fond of first before trying something.

[emmander45]

What makes you think that they might not enjoy it? Guys are easier to please since all they're after is to be able to stick their dicks inside a hole. Be it your pussy, asshole, or mouth.

[paupau11]

keyth90 if the surprise that you're going to give to him is sex related, I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't be upset about it.

[loofabb]

It will always be a surprise for me and he doesn't like it then we are just gonna stick to whatever we do for the meantime.

[yani13]

Are you the one who often surprised your partner or it's the other way around?

[westine]

I hope that he has no plans of "accidentally" putting his dick up your asshole.

[eritta6]

So which one of you were the more inventive partner? Was it you or the guy?

[loccaBVNM]

Most of the time I would suggest to him that we try something new to keep things interesting for the both of us.

[wenddall7]

But has it reached a point where you ran out of things to try for the both of you?

[boogoow13]

How about your partners? Did any of them have suggested things as well or you're the one who made sure that sex will always be interesting?

[justinenicole]

Had an ex who would do it in the middle of sex because he knows that I wouldn't say yes to it if he asks beforehand.

[kendall10]

Did you get mad at him because of it or you let it slide since you're in the middle of sex.

[BossyGal]

What was the surprise and did you accept his request by the time he surprises you?

[dvrcd13]

I had a fuck buddy who would surprise if he knew that I would enjoy it. If he not sure about it, he asks me if I'm game for it or not.

[Noelle]

Does he surprise you in the middle of sex? Were you always game or not?

[bugcow]

I'll give him a heads up first to make sure if he likes it or I'll just ask what he likes so we can try it.

[clenna2]

So will you ask everything he likes even if it's out of your playbook?